Iya Ibeji Series - When Your Teen Crushes On Someone

Is there a difference between toasting and crushing on someone? My friend sent her daughter over to my place for me to talk to her, since according to her I was the patient one. When she came to my house I saw cane marks on her body, her mum had beaten her terribly. I was upset, then she explained what happened.She had a crush on a boy in her class, they are in JSS3. Her friends knew via IFTTT