What Take Home Pay Qualifies A Man For Marriage?

Time to sit on the couch and learn or argue.... I think the couple should fuse their finances together.....Must a man be the one carrying the load?This cracks Marriages sometimes...We have too many lazy women sitting at home and raising the ''I am a housewife'' card. It doesnt matter what his salary is....Bring something to the table woman! I am sorry if i missed the point and got on via IFTTT