This Is Wrong!

We need to talk about this because I know it is happening every day in most homes.... Does it really matter whether one has a boy or a girl?who are the people with this mentality?Someone even said to me yesterday that its a pity i dont have a girl and that i must be happy..like for real?I said to her,its a pity she doesnt have a child yet and then she laughs and says that when she is ready via IFTTT